Featured Collections

New Couples Toys
New Plus Size Collection
Only Hearts
Boudoir Robes
Wedding Night
Gifts Under $30
New Bath + Body
Kink + BDSM

from our customers

"My boyfriend and I stumbled upon this store completely by accident an we're so happy we did!"

Aja D.

"What really set this shop apart from any other that I've visited was the customer service. It wasn't pushy, it wasn't uncomfortable. It was a great way to ask questions and learn more about the differences between different products I had only ever seen online."

Anne F.

"Will definitely be back, and I've already recommended the shop to my friends! If you're shy about this sort of thing, I'd recommend taking a visit. I found it very educational."

Jennie R.

"My all time favorite boutique.  Trystology has a nice range of candles along with sexy and comfortable lingerie."

Marisa A.

"Loved the private intimate feel of this place. Not your average adult novelty store. The staff was very helpful and knowledgeable about all products. I didn't feel pressured to by anything and was even suggested to bring in my husband so he could help with the deciding factor on what to buy."

Randy C.

"Amazing!! This is the mature, luxury shop I have been looking for. Everything is of the highest quality and the staff is amazing and highly knowledgeable."

Stephanie T.

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Upcoming Events

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 Or schedule your own party in-store. Bring your friends and your favorite champagne! Meet the owner and enjoy an evening of education,  empowerment and lots of laughs. Afterwards, enjoy a private shopping experience. 

Call us to book your private party!

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Come Visit Us!

Downtown Ventura, CA


588 E. Main Street
Ventura, California CA


Sun - Mon 11AM - 7PM

Fri - Sat 10AM - 8PM


(888) 801-8952



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